– how to rebuild the health and confidence of Tiwa Savage’s husband
With reports that Tunji BALOGUN, the 37 year old handsome husband of Tiwa Savage,35, tried to jump off Lekki bridge, Victoria Island (LAGOS), early on Thursday, April 28, 2016, morning after he allegedly posted furious rants painting his wife as wayward, the gentleman needs care and attention to safeguard any future attempt to end his life.
And a few experts Encomium.ng consulted advice that family and friends have a lot of work to do to ensure that the adored singer and stunner does not end up a young widow and single mother.
They highlight a few steps that will put the bearded young man popularly addressed as TeeBillz on a fail safe course to recovery and flourish.
1. He needs to be hospitalized – What those that are rescued from killing themselves require first is to be calmed down and immediately taken to hospital. Only experts in medicine, psychology and psychiatry can professionally assist a suicidal man. Not friends or family. They can only support and provide strong shoulders to rest on, but medical care is non-negotiable.
2. Underlying source of suicide must be addressed and resolved – If the rants eventually deleted are anything to go by, the success of the singer wife, and her association with colleagues have to be put in perspective . And that trust building rests on Tiwa Savage’s shoulder. The husband must be carried along, knows her dealings, and have access to her phones. This level of transparency will disabuse his mind.
3. He should be gainfully engaged – A man must be gainfully engaged and make money to provide for his family . His friends and wife should have a long discussion with him about what he enjoys doing, and help in setting him up. Financial freedom and the ability to take care of his family should be a long term goal.
-Agbolade Owolabi for Encomium.ng