Encomium
Marriage is a beautiful institution a lot of people long to enter, while some dread it. Despite all the odds, so many people are happily married and enjoying their union.
ENCOMIUM Weekly presents wives of some Nigerian comedians and what has kept their union…
KEMEN NJOKU, Senator’s wife
What would you say has been sustaining your marriage over the years?
The journey has been lovely and entertaining, though with the little ups and downs. God has been sustaining us. The trust we have built has also helped a lot.
How long have you been married?
We have been married for two years now.
Your husband has busy schedules that come with a lot of challenges, how will you say you have been coping?
It has not been easy, especially when they have their usual tours but he calls constantly at least about five times daily. The chat, the communication gap must be bridged. That has kept us going. It has not been easy I must say.
What advice do you have for other women out there?
They should keep their ears closed to what people say. They should have an open mind, most especially when they go out with them to events or functions. Have fun in the house and when you go out. Enjoy your marriage as much as you can.
EBERE STACY LAW, Seyi Law’s wife
What would you say has been sustaining your marriage over the years?
I will say the beautiful little time. We travel together sometimes as well. It has been fun and divine. My husband likes it when we do things together. We often go to events outside Lagos together.
How long have you been married?
We got married in 2011. It is about three and half years now.
Your husband has busy schedules that come with a lot of challenges, how will you say you have been coping?
The times I don’t go with him I try as much as possible to cope. But it is really not funny. Sometimes you wouldn’t even get a call early that he is not coming that day. I try to keep myself busy with other things. I always console myself with the fact that he has gone to earn a living for us.
What advice do you have for other women out there?
Trust has kept my marriage. I will advise them to stay true and trust their husbands. They should be their backbones and be there for them. It is all about trust and respect.
TOBI BABALAKIN, Teju Babyface’s wife
What would you say has been sustaining your marriage over the years?
We put God first in our marriage, even in everything we do. We trust each other, we communicate, pay attention to each other. Above all, the love we have for each other has kept us going.
How long have you been married?
We have been married for two years and still counting. Actually, it is our anniversary month.
Your husband has busy schedules that come with a lot of challenges, how will you say you have been coping?
Knowing the kind of job he does, I will say I have accepted his world. So, I cope very well with it, and I must say, out of all his busy schedules, he has been fantastic and attentive to all my needs.
What advice do you have for other women out there?
My advice is that there is always one challenge or the other, but let us keep our heads high and always remember to be the Proverbs 31 woman.
ABIOLA ADEYINKA, Gbenga Adeyinka’s wife
What would you say has been sustaining your marriage over the years?
We both understand each other. We are also very patient with each other.
How long have you been married?
We’ve been married for 19 years.
Your husband has busy schedules that come with a lot of challenges, how will you say you have been coping?
Since that is his job, I just have to cope. I married him with his job. It is just a matter of understanding. I understand his nature of work. For instance, there are times that I am not available as well. There are times I am supposed to be at home and I will be in court. It is a matter of understanding.
What advice do you have for other women out there?
They must be patient. Our mothers had a lot of patience. That was why they enjoyed their marriage. They were quite patient with their husbands.
PRISCA ADIGWU, Emeka Smith’s wife
What would you say has been sustaining your marriage over the years?
I believe in love, God and understanding.
How long have you been married?
We have been married for over a year now.
Your husband has busy schedules that come with a lot of challenges, how will you say you have been coping?
Yes, he is a busy man. His job is very challenging, but we quite understand That has been sustaining us. Obviously female fans will not allow him rest even if he doesn’t want them. What I like about my husband is that he respects his family so much.
What advice do you have for other women out there?
Always put God first, be prayerful and always support your husband, talk less about your marital issues because every marriage has its challenges.
