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Ladies vote for multiple boyfriends before marriage! (2)

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To be married, spend the rest of one’s life with the man that means the world to her is most ladies’ dream. But finding that man, is not as easy as it sounds.

Some ladies are lucky. Their first and only relationship leads to the altar. But many have to sample one guy after the other before she finds a husband.

So, how many guys should a lady date before settling down? That’s the question we asked a number of young women, and their answers are as divided as the respondents. But majority agree that as many as one can until Mr. Right shows up…

 

OMIDINA BUKOLA

It can’t be specified. Some had one and settled down. While some are not lucky with men, so they have more than one. But every woman wants and loves to make her first guy her husband anyway. It doesn’t speak well to date almost all the guys that come your way.

 

ARAMIDE ADENIYI

I will say one, but at times, it doesn’t work that way. She may experience a heart break, they may not be compatible.

A lot of factors may be responsible for a break up. No lady will want to date more than one man before settling down.

 

IRABOR PRECIOUS

A woman is allowed to have as many boyfriends as she wants before she gets married. It has its advantage which is, a woman who has dated many guys as she won’t have much reasons to cheat after marriage.

 

SIMI OLUMUYIWA

It is one now. I don’t believe a lady should double date or date more than one person at a time.

 

FOLASHADE IDOWU

I think two is okay. There should be a backup aside the first one. One might disappoint, there will always be a back up.

 

OLUYEMI NIFEMI

I think three boyfriends is ideal. The way the world is now, every girl wants a guy to meet all her needs. They are there to meet her needs.

 

NKECHI AJIYEN

One! It is possible to stick to a man and marry the guy. I am a Christian, I don’t believe in dating for the sake of it until you begin to think about marriage.

 

PEACE OWONIKOKO

A lady should have none. I don’t believe in boyfriend. When a lady is approaching marriageable age, she could get involved with a guy she would marry.

 

TAIYE DANIEL

She should have one. Stick to that one. If it does not work out, she can date another one. It is not ideal to double date.

 

BIMPE FADAHUNSI

One. We shouldn’t follow the tide. It is not a must to do what others are doing, just follow the right path. That is my principle, my belief.

 

TAWAKALT IBRAHIM

I don’t think there is an ideal number, but a lady should make sure she doesn’t sleep around. It shouldn’t be more than one because it’s the right number.

 

GRACE OSIGWE

A lady can have as many boyfriends as possible but it should be one at a time. No double dating.

 

RONNIE D

I don’t think there’s any particular number. Because I feel every woman’s mindset is to marry her first love which is the first man or guy they meet, but not everyone’s path will take that direction.

 

KEMI OLUOKUN

I feel a lady should have just one man in her life. One can have male friends but if they have not taken you to the altar then there should be no sexual relationship. I think this will help ladies a lot, it will allow the lady to keep herself for the right man.

 

AMANDA OKON

A lady shouldn’t have more than three to five boyfriends before settling down to play safe. When it’s more than these numbers people will feel she is not responsible.

 

FOLAKE ADE

It’s not that women like to have a lot of men in their life, but circumstances have made them date a lot of men. Some are very lucky to get the right man early but some women go through a lot that at times they feel they are cursed or something is wrong with them.

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