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Why older women like younger men

RECENT studies show that older women are more likely to choose a younger man when dating or getting into a new relationship.

Another study published in a journal entitled Psychology of Women found women who are 10 or more years older than their partners report more satisfaction and relationship commitment compared to women who are the same age or younger than their partners.

An older woman dating a younger man wasn’t as accepted as older men dating younger women in the past, but that changed recently with the emergence of the slang, Cougar.

Cougar is a slang that refers to a woman who seeks sexual relations with considerably younger men.

One cannot deny the allure of the older woman, younger man relationship.  Even though it has been a little bit accepted, it still slightly remains a taboo.  Unlike the other way round where the man is much older than the woman which is perfectly acceptable everywhere.

Whether a woman likes it or not, getting involved with a younger man puts her in a situation where the moral majority will frown at you.  People will talk. If you are secured enough in the relationship, then by all means proceed.

In this type of relationship, the woman is often in control and can easily manipulate her man.

The younger guys are mostly called Toy boys as a majority of them are involved with women who just want to have fun.

The younger men, older women relationship is actually more common in situations where the woman involved is successful and rich.

ENCOMIUM Weekly carried out a research on the reasons older women like younger men and here’s what we came up with.

ZEST FOR LIFE

Younger men have zest for life that most older men have lost.

MENTAL ATTITUDE OF YOUNG MEN IS VIBRANT

The mental attitude and behavior of younger men is more youthful and vibrant.  This is very appealing to older women who are not mentally old. The zest for life and living is one of the most attractive assets any woman can bring to the table,

MEN MY AGE ARE BORING

We women still have a lot of life within us and we want the same in a man.  For some reason, the men our age seem to age more quickly, are just plain tired and no longer have much spark and desire for much of anything.  Active women have more to offer than just having a tidy home and a good television.

MEN MY AGE ARE NOT EXCITING

Men my age just sit at home and watch sports.  They have nothing to converse about.  They don’t know what’s in vogue or where to party.

YOUNGER MEN MAKE ME FEEL YOUNGER

Being with a younger man makes me feel younger.  I become more conscious about what I do and how I look.

YOUNGER MEN ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE

Younger men are more exciting in bed.  They have a lot of sexual energy and are more fun in bed.

YOUNGER MEN HAVE MORE STRENGTH

Men my age are actually boring and don’t have so much strength in bed.  But younger men are full of strength and can last longer in bed.

THEY DON’T WANT COMMITMENT

Younger men don’t want any form of commitment.  They mostly give companionship and get gratification in return.  A lot of them are not financially stable.

-TINUOLA JOSEPH

 

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